My Negative Blogging Experiences

26 Feb

I warn you now, this was a very hard post to write. I have tried to be as honest as possible, and I hope that those of you who read this will take something away from it.
Starting this blog has been life changing, in all the good ways. I have made some amazing friends, been introduced to fabulous clothing and lingerie brands, appeared in several magazines and newspapers both in this country and abroad. And the best part of all is that I have the most supportive, interesting lovely readers. However, blogging is not always the smooth ride it can sometimes appear to be. As with everything in life there is a downside. For me it has been a teeny tiny negative side effect of my amazing hobby, however, I would like to share my experiences as I feel they may be interesting to fellow bloggers, aspiring bloggers and avid readers of my blog.

 

How Others Perceive Me

Writing a blog that involves me posting snaps of myself in my skimpies on the internet will of course not always be met with great reactions. I come from a fairly strict, religious family, and naturally they are not thrilled by my hobby. When I partook in Curvy Kate’s ‘Star In A Bra’ 2011, that bridge got crossed and I remember nervously telling my Mum about it. They were not really supportive or happy with me being in such a competition, and I doubt they will ever understand why I blog. However, it has not made me regret starting it at all, and as I have always been the ‘alternative one’ I brush off their disapproval quite easily nowadays. My blog is my diary, my cathartic offload and my way of sharing, learning, helping and educating, and to me in my mind it makes perfect sense.

The way that fellow bloggers see me has been something of an education. I straddle both the plus size and the lingerie side of thing, and for that reason I have never felt fully accepted by some plus size bloggers. There are some who flatteringly see me as something of a guru, and really look forward to meeting me – something I find very strange! There are those who see me as an equal, and reference me and include me in things. And there are some who seem to be completely baffled by/resentful of what I do. It’s no secret that my blog is very successful. I’d like to think that my honestly, my variety and frequency of posts, my (constant!) online presence, my dutiful responses to the hundreds of emails and messages I get every month and my personality has helped with that. And with success comes admiration and resentment. I will never name names as I don’t need too, these women know who they are, but it does upset me to hear of and experience other bloggers who speak badly of me, namely because I pose in lingerie. They assume my success is largely because of the men who read my blog for non-educational purposes, and that I should tolerate the attention that some bestow on me. I don’t deny the fact that I must be an appeal some males, and indeed females because of my photos. But I can safely say that the majority of my readers are women, and that I will never ever relish or tolerate any sort of crude behaviour from anyone. It may come with the territory, but that doesn’t make it ok. Personally, I salute anyone who is successful at anything, and whilst jealousy is a natural human emotion that we cannot prevent, it should never give way to maliciousness. I take everything to heart, and so it does bother me a great deal when these women ostracize me or bad mouth me, but I have got such a huge support network that far outweighs how that small group treats me.

The way my friends see me has been largely amazing. I am blessed to have some wonderful people in my life who have been my support where others have failed me. I guess the only downside has been that I am now bra OBSESSED, and it must annoy my friends when it trickles into my Facebook feeds and our conversations, which in turn can make me feel awkward.

Trolls

The joy of being online means, of course, that faceless spineless people come out to play. I have been told I’m fat too many times to count. Despite me admitting and accepting it, it can sometimes still hurt for a few minutes, but it’s not something I dwell on like I used too when I was at school (and ironically had an amazing figure). I’ve been told that I undo all of the good work of doctors, nurses, teachers and other such professionals, as I am basically a slut. Possibly most infuriatingly of all, I have had people comment on posts with comments that imply they didn’t even read it. Example: I wrote a post about Adele, and in the posts I said something along the lines of ‘Adele is not as curvy as some other women – Kelly Brook for example, despite the fact that Adele is larger.’ It was meant to refer to the fact that ‘curvy’ is not a size, it is a shape. I received a charming little comment from someone, who was clearly outraged at my blasphemy, and informed me that I wasn’t curvy, I was just fat with big tits. Delightful. It’s hard not to take such things to heart, and I do my best to laugh off outlandish ill informed comments. It’s just part of being online, although it is hard to swallow at times.

Plus Size Stigmas

Those of you who have read this post will know my views on body snarking and bitchiness. Sadly, it does seem to be the case that larger women and people who admire those women physically will often bash slim women, and assume that all larger women should feel equally venomous. You definitely can be proud of your body and size and shape, but it should never be at the expense of others. And you should never assume that everyone feels the same way. I see red at comments on Facebook pages that make jokes and digs about slim women being ‘bones’ and ‘tooth picks’, and when I try to put an end to the venom I am often met with shock! How dare a large woman such as myself stand up for women who are slim! But do you know why I do it? Because I have been that person being picked on for my size too many times, and I do not like seeing others receive the same hurt that I did. Being proud of your shape and size and being a ‘real women’ can happen at any size, but only when you truly accept difference as another option, not as something to be mocked. Real women do not bully other women in order to make themselves feel better.

My Facebook Page

Oh the joys I have had with my Facebook page! In hindsight, I should have named it ‘Fuller Figure Fuller Bust – The Facebook page for my blog of the same name’ or something equally as obvious, as the description passes most people by. I write a blog that involves a lot of lingerie reviews, and so I often share and post photos of lingerie models. These women are typically slim and shapely, and you can imagine the outrage from women who have merely read my Facebook page name and nothing more and then they feel cheated by seeing a slim woman! I try to tell them, time and time again that my page is an extension of my blog, but it mostly falls on deaf ears and I have grown pretty tired of trying to explain. I am just grateful that those women make up a tiny percentage of my lovely fans, and the rest of the ladies often jump in on my behalf to defend me and the page.
Another frequent occurrence on the page, similar to the one I just discussed, happens when I post images and links to anything cup size related. I am forever trying to educate women about cup size misconceptions, the signs of ill fitting bras and the sizes of lingerie models, and some women who happen to ‘pass through’ the page without knowing about my blog get very confused. I’d like to think that my knowledge on properly fitted bras is far better than most bra fitters – in fact, countless fittings have led me to believe that it definitely is! And so I will try to be patient and explain things to women, and although it can mostly go well, I get the odd incident where women are scornful and mocking, failing to listen to my logic behind my preachings and that can make me so frustrated! I know I can be too passionate and hot headed, but my blog is my passion, and I want every woman everywhere to own at least 3 well fitted bras, and to understand how and why they fit so well.

My Blog Is My Baby

I am currently on holiday as I write this post, cruising several thousand feet above Vietnam on my way from Hoi An to Hanoi. I guess I should be chilling out and reading my book, but I just can’t leave my blog! I thought I would be able to go a few weeks without checking my social streams and emails, but I’ve actually found it more relaxing to wake up when my boyfriend goes out for a run and go through everything on my laptop, green tea in hand, the sunlight streaming into my hotel room. You see, I can’t stop thinking about the blog, about ideas for posts, about whether or not I need to help anyone who has emailed me, and sometimes it does stress those who are close to me out. I can imagine that this is how someone who runs a business feels, and it is never a chore, but I can see how boring it must be for others. I pour so much of myself into my blog, and I doubt I could ever stop writing or stop checking up on it.

 

As I have said, starting my blog has been the best decision I ever made, and these negative experiences do little to dent what has been an amazing journey. I just wanted to share some fears, frustrations and experiences with you all, to give you some perspective on what it’s like to be a blogger, and I’d like to thank you all for reading my posts and supporting me, it means so much.

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48 Responses to “My Negative Blogging Experiences”

  1. Ed February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    You are a beautiful woman. Never let the idiots out there get you down!! Keep up the great work!

  2. Belle February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    You’re blog is fabulous just like you xx

  3. Lucy February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Georgie,

    Your adventures, your writing and your opinions are amazing and inspiring. I’d like to have your courage. Please know that for every troll and poopy head, there are dozens who cheer your every word. Sorry for not being loud enough. Thank you for sharing so much of yourself with us and please don’t ever stop.

    Xoxo,
    Lucy

  4. Jenn Caves February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    As always a lovely and honest blog

  5. bizzybeze February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Your blog is one of my favorites. As a full busted woman I appreciate your detailed reviews and honest writing. I wish I had the courage to start a blog. I think you are so brave and fearless and beautiful. FYI I am a married woman of two kids, not a pervert or a hater. And I’m sure the majority of your following, follow you for the right reasons as well. As long as you blog I will follow. Thanks for sharing your life experiences, and know that the abundance of positive energy you create cancels out the negative haters.

  6. Megan February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Your blog was the first and only one I really follow. I look forward to your blogs. You had a talent for writing in such an easy ad honest manner. I truly find them so interesting and helpful. It’s a shame we have so many spineless people in this world but by doing this blog u prove you are so much better than them. I hope you don’t waste too much of your time being bothered by them.

  7. Christiana Svetkovich February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Thank goodness, that’s beautiful. Its hard to not be bitter when people pick on your body type. Stay beautiful life is to short for remaining negative. I am very happy I decided to randomly read this =)

  8. Alex February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    As I always say; haters gonna hate. It’s their time and energy they’re wasting, the important thing is not to let it waste yours.

  9. Cat February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    I love that this blog takes a stance against body snarking; it always baffles me that people think putting others down to feel better about themselves is OK. I also like that you call people out on it on your Facebook page, because if they make comments like that, they obviously need to read more of your posts/page description! It at least might give them pause before they do it again. And if it doesn’t, well, as Alex ^ said, “haters gonna hate.”

  10. Chris February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Reading this extremely personal blog post not only shows why you are popular, but how good you are at doing it. I follow you on twitter as well and know you’ve struggled writing this but I commend you for taking all these thoughts and being able to organize them in the way you have – personal, emotional, heartfelt, yet not sniping or bitchy. I have no doubt there are people who follow just for the pictures (who wouldn’t want to see a beautiful woman such as you dressed in gorgeous bras or more!!!!) but my guess is they’re drawn in by the pictures but stay because of your thoughts and the connection you make with so many people!!! There are too many cruel people in the world and most of them are just selfish and hypocritical who take their self-hate out on anyone they come across. Because you put yourself out there like you do, physically and emotionally, unfortunately you become a target. But sounds like you’ve learned to TRY and ignore those people as you should!
    Keep up the great writing and thanks for sharing all the great pictures as well!! We love them both! You’re awesome!

  11. Connie February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    I’m sorry to hear that you must deal with such negative people. When I first came across your blog, I thought, “Now that is a strong, confident, smart woman.” Thanks to you, I’ve become more confident in my own size and shape, and it made more aware of how wrong the bra size I was wearing. Your blog has also made me aware of how incomplete the sizing range of undergarments is in the US lingerie market. There has been more than one occasion in which I, or a friend I tagged along with to shop for a bra in which the “fitter” recommended a bra that they carried but isn’t quite my size (or my friend’s). I hope more lingerie manufacturers listen up and start providing more larger cupped (and pretty) bras, and a wider selection for women with small backs. Despite all the negativity you’ve encountered, I am so grateful that you’ve decided to not let them bother you but to continue to educate other women on wearing clothing and undergarments for our size, and to make the most of our figures, regardless of fullness or thinness. Thank you, Georgina.

  12. Amy Smidebush February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    You are wonderful! I love your blog/facebook! Keep doing what you’re doing! Besides, I know it is a cliche, but it really is true that most negative attention is caused by jealousy. Perhaps someone is jealous of your beauty…or jealous of your blogging and/or modeling success….or just jealous because you are comfortable in your own skin when they are not. I truly believe you are an inspiration for MANY reasons, and your passion and enthusiasm is infectious! Always remember how many people you are helping, and that far outweighs the haters. It just seems that haters have more time on their hands to leave nasty comments. However, I’m positive that for every negative comment, there are AT LEAST twenty people who think wonderful things but just don’t take the time to write their responses. Yes, being in the public light for any reason is going to attract criticism. It’s just part of the territory. However, you are gorgeous, smart, funny, and I look forward to all your future blog/facebook posts!

  13. Tiyar Kelley February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    It takes a special strong person to push against the tide of mediocrity, shame and insults when making a positive change in the world. I really really enjoy your FB page and visits to your blog – you got me into the right size bra, for which I am very grateful! I was wearing 42b when I really needed 38DD/E! Now I have been buying beautiful some lingerie and upgrading the rest of my wardrobe as well. I am a public performer (bass guitar/vocals) 5’4″ 200lbs and very at ease in my fat curvy self. I just never knew how to dress any part of me that wasn’t hat, hair or shoes!. I was never fat as a child – it took 3 babies and a few decades to get this well endowed, and I’m not in any particular rush to “lose weight”. I kind of like being large and in charge.
    You are a beautiful woman and an excellent writer, don’t let the haters get you down, and don’t sling hate back. The ones that snark the hardest are the ones that usually need the most help. You are loved and cherished and inspirational! {{{{hugs}}}} TRK

  14. Judi Smoot February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Being a “plus size woman” (3-4X) and now a mature 66 yrs. old, I read and enjoy your blog, etc. because up to my 40′s I was very thin and plus size crept up on me and I haven’t a clue how to fit bras, etc. to my body. Your pictures of proper fit and also your beauty in the outfits you choose. I have lived life on both sides of the spectrum, too skinny and too heavy so I know personally comments, jokes, etc. about fat or skinny hurt your self image and just plain hurt. I am so thankful you have a hobby that is a guiding tool and a blessing for many women and I pray you keep on writting! Thank you, Judi

  15. The Old Wolf February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Blogging is writing, writing is art, and art means putting your soul on display for the rest of the world. There will always be unschooled weeds with cans of virtual spray paint who enjoy defacing the work of others, for Mogg knows what personal satisfaction; I simply block their comments and move on. Keep on being awesome!

  16. Almitra February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    I think you are amazing.. and your success is inspiring.

  17. Katy February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    I only discovered your blog a few months ago, but I am utterly hooked. In this short space of time you have become one of my heroines. One of the things I admire the most is how you treat the people who are negative – you are always so dignified and respectful. I’m sure like many of your readers, I was bullied for years (the curse of the busty lady) and I’m only recently starting to find my confidence. But people like you are making me feel so much prettier and more feminine. The other week I even bought a red pencil dress!
    Thank you for not giving up, even though sometimes it must be so hard. You’ll always have thousands of soul sisters out here who’ve got your back xx

  18. Cindiluhu February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    You go girl , I fellin love with a man who made me feel very comfortable in my skin. Unfortunately , that happened after being married to someone who did nothing but belittle me for being chunky . I endured that abuse for 15 yrs and 2 kids . I finally left the situation when he started calling the kids names , fatty , piggy , etc. that sealed the deal for me! I can defend myself , but my preteen kids cannot talk back to their “dad” . We left . Haters are gonna hate , so be it . Every plus size female should know that there are men who prefer healthy heavy women , and not just for fetishes . I have had the pleasure of being loved by two in my lifetime . It is possible ! Love your body , be it thick or thin. God made you in a way that cannot be changed no matter how hard you try! Accept it

  19. Brianna February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    OMG hon you are STUNNING and yeah that separates you from the herd so yeah you are going to get picked on. Haters are going to hate NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO. You will find that as you get older the crap does not hurt as much so take heart and know that you are beautiful. Have you done a Jessica Rabbit shoot yet? If not I can’t wait for one you are PERFECT to do that character.

  20. Lena February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    oh my :-/ humans are just stupid… I’m sorry that you had to read such things, for me you are just gorgeous woman that is happy and spreads joy and happiness everywhere!
    (I am not very active and perhaps this is my first comment here, but I am still here fingers crossing!)

  21. Jen February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    You’re an inspiration lady! I came across your blog a couple of months ago and it’s one of only 2 I check daily. Please please please NEVER let the idiots get you down to the point where you stop doing what you love! Otherwise I’m going to have to go back to sourcing my own lingerie rather than relying on your reviews! :-) xx

  22. Suz Korb February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    You’re a star! I’m so jealous of your ability to be happy with your body. I probably weigh a bit less than you, but even at my size I am insecure about my “curves”. I hope one day that I’ll be able to be comfortable in my own skin. Even when I was thin I still wasn’t happy, I’d see places on my body that weren’t perfect and feel down at a weight of 8 stone and a height of 5’7″.

  23. Brittani February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    I have followed your blog occasionally, but think I will have to more regularly because of this post. Your sincerity and emotional maturity are seen through the superb writing and wonderful introspection. Thank you for being brave enough to provide the world with a blog of substance. You’re awesome, and don’t let the haters get you down. More importantly enjoy Vietnam! Cheers,
    Brittani :-)

  24. Jen February 26, 2013 at 12.53 #

    You and your blog are both fabulous and a delight and truly, you are one of the most beautiful women I know of (truly). There will always be those who prefer to take digs at others, for whatever reason they have—none of them good. In my life I’ve done my best to let such unkindness “roll off like water off a duck’s back”, as my mom always told me to do!

    Enjoy your vacation!

  25. Nils Fliegner February 27, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Aloha,
    I’m one of the MEN who follow your blog – not purely for scientific reasons ;-)

    BUT, let me firmly state this:

    - While I think you are very attractive, I never considered you sweater meat or a bimbo,
    but someone who knows and tells about the beauty of “real” woman.

    - There are always folks who’ll dislike you for what you are: It’s their prerogative and it
    should not stop you in any way from following your true intentions.

    - My GF looks a lot like you (= okay, wider hips ;-) and she loves your blog!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    I guess, that counts more than my approval or the dismissal of others.

    So, right on, sista!

  26. Jasmine February 27, 2013 at 12.53 #

    It takes a lot of courage to stand up and write a post like this – to be really honest about your experiences and dispel the myth that blogging is all rainbows and glitter. For some reason, acknowledging one troll exists seems to bring out all the other trolls, and as plus sized women it can be hard to be a blogger without getting dragged into all the body politics (or being criticised for not getting more involved – Fashion Hayley seems to have copped a fair bit of that for being a fashion blogger without ever really exploring the politics of fat and fashion).

    You deserve all your success and you’re fabulous at what you’re doing!

  27. shapeplusstyle February 27, 2013 at 12.53 #

    I love your blog. It’s been an inspiration and I am always excited to read the next instalment. I don’t understand trolls or folk who just want to say nasty things. If you don’t like it, don’t read it. Simples! xx

  28. wanderingkirsten February 27, 2013 at 12.53 #

    As a large busted woman with a small band size, your reviews of bras have helped me find several new brands, and this to me, is totally priceless. Your body positive message is valuable and important!
    Never believe any different.

  29. Robbie February 27, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Well I am sorry you have had a rough ride at times, but as A guy I can honestly say you are very beautiful just the way you are. I am not just saying that as some sort of cliche feel good statement. I honestly find you very attractive. All sorts of people find different sizes and shapes attractive, so don’t think twice about someone calling you names. As some one married to a shapely woman, they don’t know what they are missing. As I tell my wife, regardless of your size, there will always be skinnier people and there will always be fatter people. Just enjoy who you are and don’t worry about it.

  30. Cecilia February 27, 2013 at 12.53 #

    I have to admit, this is my first visit to you blog. And although I don’t know that much about you, it hurts me to hear about the coments people leave behind. I kind of know what you’re going throu as I’m a skinny girl my self and have received my faire chaire of comments and bullying. Keep doing what you do. I know I have found a new blogg to follow. Best regards Cecilia

  31. Ve February 27, 2013 at 12.53 #

    “Writing a blog that involves me posting snaps of myself in my skimpies on the internet will of course not always be met with great reactions. I come from a fairly strict, religious family, and naturally they are not thrilled by my hobby. When I partook in Curvy Kate’s ‘Star In A Bra’ 2011, that bridge got crossed and I remember nervously telling my Mum about it. They were not really supportive or happy with me being in such a competition, and I doubt they will ever understand why I blog.”

    Well, speaking as someone who comes from an extremely conservative Christian family, who considers herself to be a “Liberal Christian/Member of the Relgious Left,” I am very thankful that you have this blog and that you play such an interactive, helpful role with your readers. You have been very helpful to me and countless others, and as much grief as I imagine you get from having such an online presence (a good friend of mine said we should start a show on YouTube and I said, “I don’t have enough love in my actual life to deal with that kind of hate online”), I do want to thank you for all you have done :-)

  32. : ) February 27, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Oh I think you definitely deserve the status of magic bra guru in the blogosphere haha! At least in my mind, your blog has been an important feature in my (ongoing) bra journey I assure you! I can see why bloggers and the like would be excited if they met you, and for the others, there is always going to be less than nice people on the internet and in real life but fortunately many are on board with you and can admire your efforts :)

  33. Albertina February 27, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Even though it is impossible to deny that you are exceptionally beautiful, you should never accept anyone telling you that your success is based on “nude” photos, as you also strike me as a much intelligent woman that deserve all good things that has happened to you because of your blog. I often check your blog for new posts, and they are always very clever! I work with bra fitting in Sweden, and I agree on all your thoughts and experiences.
    Keep up the good work, hugs, /Albertina

  34. ellomennopeee February 27, 2013 at 12.53 #

    To avoid criticism, do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing.
    E. Hubbard

    Keep doing what you’re doing. The other day a friend started telling me about this amazing blog about bras and I was like, babe-FFFB, I know!

  35. Mab February 27, 2013 at 12.53 #

    OMG you are GORGEOUS! I wish I had your confidence, as I am still struggling with my post-baby body 2 years later. But I am working so hard to get there. You are an inspiration, sister! I don’t want to be skin & bones, as it wouldn’t be healthy for me. Some girls pull off that waifish/elfin look very well. I am not one of them. I just want to be where you are – able to love myself & not be so damned critical of myself.

    You rock!

  36. ArgieBargie February 28, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Well said! I enjoy everything I learn on your blog, and I found it in my quest to learn more about lingerie. So, keep up the good work!

    And Ve: I had not heard the term Member of the Religious Left before but I like it!

  37. Victoria Taylor February 28, 2013 at 12.53 #

    It is awful that people have expressed any negativity related to your work! As a large breasted woman myself (ranging anything from G – HH cup) I love reading your opinions and reviews as they so accurately express the sort of things I want to know about and the sort of experiences I have had. To suggest that your readers are solely made up of lecherous men is clearly not true. I agree wholeheartedly that people should live a life of positivity and criticising others is just a misjudged attempt at ego boosting. I have nothing but positive things to say about what I have seen on your blog – keep up the good work! Vic (a non lecherous non man)

    Date: Tue, 26 Feb 2013 15:45:08 +0000 To: missvataylor@hotmail.co.uk

  38. Olivia :) February 28, 2013 at 12.53 #

    You have really inspired me Georgina and your piece on skinny-bashing made me realise that I was doing that without realising the effects! I didn’t have bad intentions I was trying to defend and promote an average size/healthy figure against eating disorders and this skinny=hot trend but now I am far more conscious of this and I have become far more educated on this issue. I am a big supporter of body confidence and I think what you are doing is fantastic! :) Of course I envy your wardrobe and the complimentary items you receive but not in a hateful way, I just wish I had all that stuff :) You have definitely worked hard for your success and it’s not like you just got paid to have a blog. Considering how many people gain internet success over something trivial, how can anyone have a problem with you! You have demonstrated that a person can look fabulous at any size and in a society where women are faced to try and make clothes made for a more up and down, thin figure, it is really tough. I’m not even plus sized and I really feel the limitations hard because I’m busty. A male friend of mine went out of his way to mention you were totally cute by the way! He has good taste in women, he had a crush on me a few years back :P <3 <3 keep up the excellent work! I'd love to meet you cos I know you have the expertise to be able to tell me what dresses/tops would fit me well!

  39. BombShell Blondi March 1, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Sad, hurt people like to make others just that- sad and hurt. In general I take a moment of pitty for these people. However, when done from behind a computer it reaches a new low. Your blog is amazing on so many levels, and for every one person who is miffed, there is probably 20 people who regain a little confidence with your blog. Love it, hands down!

  40. Monica March 1, 2013 at 12.53 #

    I only recently discovered your blog and I think it’s fab. Thanks for writing it.

  41. Alice A March 1, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Georgina, I bloody love you. You were one of the first blogs I found when researching fuller bust options for lingerie and I’ve been a loyal reader ever since – and it’s been a year or so too! :)

    I really admire you and all the wonderfullness that you are and I’m sorry that some people are just negative idiots. :/

  42. Jenna March 2, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Reblogged this on Of Epic Proportions and commented:
    I am not nearly as successful as Georgina (according to her haters, I guess I should show off my knickers more), but I can relate to a bunch of these. All I have to say is that we should all be treating each other kindly, period.

  43. Tashmahal March 2, 2013 at 12.53 #

    I found your blog by chance. I find your blog extremely informative. After spending $100′s of dollars on bras that DON’T work, it was refreshing to find something that fits “me”. I love the reviews, I like looking how things will lay a certain way on a curvier body, I like being able to relate. Not only do I find your blog informative, but I also like the tone your facebook page has. You usually post bigger women. It makes me feel a little bit more confident and acceptive in my own skin. You have found a niche (and from what i’ve seen a notoriaty) that speaks to quite a number of women who don’t have a lot of places to turn when it comes to plus size lingerie that doesn’t look like my grandmothers underwear. As for the people who call you fat- there will always be people who want to see you fail. There are many reasons for this including their own shortcomings. My advice- don’t feed into it. You obviously have a following and those following need more Georgina’s in the world. Curvy women that ooze confidence and class. Kudos to you.

    Tasha.

    Edited- can you delete my prior post. I didn’t know my email would show up in there lol!

  44. chloe March 2, 2013 at 12.53 #

    Never stop being you, Along the way you are dragging a generation of women who battle society and themselves,Without people like you women can not move forward young and old salute you for saying this is me. All of us have a right to look good feel sexy and enjoy life, Our size, and shape should be part of our strength not our weakness.
    Be happy you sure as heck look great

  45. ratternde Ruby March 2, 2013 at 12.53 #

    It’s really sad that all those people, who possibly can’t even accept their own bodies, so often have to spread the hate they feel for themselves to others. =( I myself am rather skinny, but also have a distinct waist, which most people don’t seem to associate with skinny people either (looking at that, who really is associated with a waist if neither skinny nor fuller people are?), and I love your blog. You are confident, you are pretty, you have a lovely style and you are not just doing this to show off what nice clothes you can afford, but to help other people with similar fitting problems find something that might fit them. (At least that’s my impression.) It’s sad that some jealous people cannot see or appreciate this but have to bully you for it, despite probably never having the guts to do what you do themselves.

    Speaking of negative experiences: Unfortunately this was just brought to my attention (http://kurvendiskussionen.tumblr.com/post/44385177166/so-sad-that-theres-no-credit-thats-georgina#_=_) and I am not sure if someone has informed you about it already, so I thought better safe than sorry. As if it wasn’t already bad enough that your photos have been taken without credit have a look at what kind of site they were taken from and brought to tumlr, i.e. who stole it in the first place (a site called hiboobs.com which is full of sexualised nude photos and “breast fetishism”). Seeing how your aim seems to be having an informative blog rather than being objectified by those men for non-educational purposes (and stealing the photos in the first place is a copyright infringement, no matter where they end up) I thought I might just bring this to your attention in case you haven’t seen it already.

    I wish you all the best luck with your future blogging endeavours and speaking up not only against the bullies but also those horrible picture thieves!

  46. Miriam Hawjins March 18, 2013 at 12.53 #

    You look amazing! I found your blog via a lingerie website and love your photos. Good luck and keep blogging! You are an inspiration to us proud and curvy ladies.

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